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Before you get the results on your Personal
Profile, please take a moment to read this page to become familiar with
the four common ways that people tend to unknowingly limit themselves
from creating the work and life they want.
Being Right
There is a tendency for some people to want to be right, to the point
where they lose touch with how this is alienating their self from others.
In order to be right, someone else must be wrong. To be right requires
that you make judgements about others ideas, or actions that attempts
to justify your ideas and actions as better than theirs. The lure of being
right is to give you a false sense of being in control and even dominating
or intimidating others. The cost of being right is to create distance,
distrust, and damage to a relationship. Ultimately, this hurts their ability
to be truly powerful and open to learning what they need to in order to
succeed.
Looking Good
Another common way that people tend to limit themself, is to focus on
looking good to the point they lose touch with themselves. They become
overly concerned with seeking other people's approval, that they have
a hard time accepting themself as they are. Their motivation and drive
comes from outside themself as they try to get attention and please others
excessively. They tend to overwork, be over responsible, as they are so
focused on their image and appearance, that they ignore how their own
feelings and needs. The cost of trying to look good is that they eventually
burnout and resent others for not being appreciated enough. Finally, by
focusing on looking good they lose touch with their passion and inner
motivation to create what they want.
Avoiding Responsibility
In this case there is a tendency to avoid responsibility to point where
a person would feel powerless and like a victim. There is a need to blame
and complain a lot, and try to get attention with "poor me"
stories. Often they have elaborate reasons why they can't do what they
want, and end up becoming dependant on others as they give their power
away too easily. Avoiding responsibility leads to a feeling of being out
of control, anxiety, and helplessness.
Playing it Safe
The fourth way that people unknowingly limit themself is to play it safe
to the point that they take few risks to get what they want. They lower
their expectations, and try to get by each day without too many hassles.
They don’t want to risk failure, or being disapproved of by anyone
so they attempt to conform, be nice, and not make waves. Being secure
becomes more important than being successful. The irony here is that more
they play it safe, the more they give up what they want, which is basically
the same as having failed.
Summary
So there are the four ways that people unknowingly limit themselves: Being
Right, Looking Good, Avoiding Responsibility, and Playing It Safe. Each
of them causes a breakdown in your creative power and a loss of passion
and motivation to create what you want.
With the Breakthrough Technology you will
be able to turn these breakdowns into Breakthroughs! By applying the Breakthrough
Technology you can regain your Power and Passion to create what you want.
But first, let's see how you scored on your Personal Profile to see how
you might be unknowingly limiting yourself. And, where you may need to
focus to create a Breakthrough.
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